Suspect Your Spouse Of Cheating - Experience any of these?

At the beginning of an affair the individual that is cheating is more attentive to his her spouse.  This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time.  There might be extra kindness than normal, extra chores performed, volunteering to do things, buy and bring you gifts etc.

The cheater may have a change in sex life, (more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual request.  After the affair has been going on for a while the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind.  Out of ordinary behavior, frustration, sudden arguments, fights that may escalade to storming away.

Cheating individuals may loose attention in the activities in the home or day to day life functions.  They don’t show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home.  Nor do they have and desires to do any fix-ups to the home, lawn care, house repairs, etc.

Mutual friends may begin to act strangely towards you; they either know of the cheating or have been given stories about how horrible of a spouse or significant other you are.  The cheater may have a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate, (if he/she didn’t act the way they do, well then maybe I wouldn’t be doing the things I do).

Cheaters may stop confiding or seeking advice from you, spend more time away working, shopping, with friends, joining a fitness gym, etc.

Cheating may show in cell phone, computer use or even with extra mileage on vehicle regularly used.  A cell phone may be kept always at hand or in purse, maybe set on vibrate and calls or text ignored around you.  Computer use while away or in bed late at night and the cheater may be meeting further away in vehicle.

Grooming habits will change.  Cheaters will be more attentive to their person, (the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of their hair, switching of colognes, etc.).

Finances. "If someone wants to play they have to pay", therefore keeping an eye on their monies, (check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc.) would tell you whether their spending more money than usual.

Intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem.